#94 | Frankly
Social Overshoot? Dunbar’s Number, Real Relationships, and Musical Chairs
Description
With more people on the planet than ever before – with most having constant digital access to one another – there is an abundance of potential relationships available to us. Despite this, there is also an increasing loneliness crisis across global society. What can evolutionary psychology teach us about this lack of meaningful relationships at a time of hyper-connectivity?
In this week’s Frankly, Nate reflects on the effects of technology on modern relationships, and how Dunbar’s number infers a ceiling on the number of people we can meaningfully interact with. He emphasizes the rare value of full attention in close relationships, and the implications of our current social dynamics as we face more turbulent times and a smaller world ahead.
What are the negative effects of overextending our social networks and how does that shape the way we build community? How can we foster and strengthen connections with the people who are most important to us? Finally, what will our networks look like when the economic music speeds up or stops, and those who are closest to us become our most important support systems?
In French, we have a motto that says that a simple drawing is often better than a long explanation. Jean-Marc Jancovici Carbone 4 President
That’s very understandable because with left atmosphere thinking, one of the problems is that you see everything as a series of problems that must have solutions. Iain McGilchrist Neuroscientist and Philosopher
We can’t have hundreds and hundreds of real relationships that are healthy because that requires time and effort and full attention and awareness of being in real relationship and conversation with the other human. Nate Hagens Director of ISEOF
This is the crux of the whole problem. Individual parts of nature are more valuable than the biocomplexity of nature. Thomas Crowther Founder Restor
Show Notes & Links to Learn More
02:40 – Epigamic Traits
02:48 – Sexual Selection
03:19 – Agricultural Revolution
03:34 – Evolutionary Psychology
03:36 – Dunbar’s Number
03:46 – Neocortex
03:49 – Robin Dunbar
05:54 – Iain McGilchrist, TGS Episode
06:29 – Left Brain
06:43 – Ian McGilchrist – The Master and His Emissary
07:29 – Ayahuasca and other psychedelics
07:41 – MDMA “Ecstasy”
09:18 – Mahamudra Meditation
10:57 – The Great Simplification – Full Movie
11:48 – Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young
13:15 – Carbon Pulse
