Reality Roundtable 20

Reality Roundtable #20 — Hacking Human Attachment: The Loneliness Crisis, Cognitive Atrophy, and Other Personal Dangers of AI

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Mainstream conversations about artificial intelligence tend to center around the technology’s economic and large-scale impacts. Yet it’s at the individual level where we’re seeing AI’s most potent effects, and they may not be what you think. Even in the limited time that AI chatbots have been publicly available (like Claude, ChatGPT, Perplexity, etc.), studies show that our increasing reliance on them wears down our ability to think and communicate effectively, and even erodes our capacity to nurture healthy attachments to others. In essence, AI is atrophying the skills that sit at the core of what it means to be human. Can we as a society pause to consider the risks this technology poses to our well-being, or will we keep barreling forward with its development until it’s too late?

In this episode, Nate is joined by Nora Bateson and Zak Stein to explore the multifaceted ways that AI is designed to exploit our deepest social vulnerabilities, and the risks this poses to human relationships, cognition, and society. They emphasize the need for careful consideration of how technology shapes our lives and what it means for the future of human connection. Ultimately, they advocate for a deeper engagement with the embodied aspects of living alongside other people and nature as a way to counteract our increasingly digital world.

What can we learn from past mass adaptation of technologies such as the invention of the world wide web or GPS when it comes to AI’s increasing presence in our lives? How does artificial intelligence expose and intensify the ways our culture is already eroding our mental health and capacity for human connection? And lastly, how might we imagine futures where technology magnifies the best sides of humanity – like creativity, cooperation, and care – rather than accelerating our most destructive instincts?

About Nora Bateson

Nora Bateson is an award-winning filmmaker, writer and educator, as well as President of the International Bateson Institute, based in Sweden. Her work asks the question “How can we  improve our perception of the complexity we live within, so we may improve our interaction with the world?”

An international lecturer, researcher and writer, Nora wrote, directed and produced the award-winning documentary, An Ecology of Mind, a portrait of her father, Gregory Bateson. Her work brings the fields of biology, cognition, art, anthropology, psychology, and information technology together into a study of the patterns in ecology of living systems. Her book, Small Arcs of Larger Circles, released by Triarchy Press, UK, 2016 is a revolutionary personal approach to the study of systems and complexity.

About Zak Stein

Dr. Zak Stein is a philosopher of education, as well as a Co-founder of the Center for World Philosophy and Religion. He is also the Co-founder of Civilization Research Institute, the Consilience Project, and Lectica, Inc. He is the author of dozens of published papers and two books, including Education in a Time Between Worlds. Zak received his EdD from Harvard University.

In French, we have a motto that says that a simple drawing is often better than a long explanation. Jean-Marc Jancovici Carbone 4 President

That’s very understandable because with left atmosphere thinking, one of the problems is that you see everything as a series of problems that must have solutions. Iain McGilchrist Neuroscientist and Philosopher

We can’t have hundreds and hundreds of real relationships that are healthy because that requires time and effort and full attention and awareness of being in real relationship and conversation with the other human. Nate Hagens Director of ISEOF

This is the crux of the whole problem. Individual parts of nature are more valuable than the biocomplexity of nature. Thomas Crowther Founder Restor

Show Notes & Links to Learn More

The TGS team puts together these brief references and show notes for the learning and convenience of our listeners. However, most of the points made in episodes hold more nuance than one link can address, and we encourage you to dig deeper into any of these topics and come to your own informed conclusions.

00:00 – 

05:13 – Intergenerational transmission

05:39 – B. F. Skinner, Operant condition chamber

06:04 – Emergence of AI tutoring systems

06:18 – Zak Stein & Daniel Thorson: AI Tutor Apocalypse

06:47 – AI rapid adoption by high school and college students

08:23 – Social media disruption of person-to-person connections, Social media affecting romantic relationships

08:50 – Human to AI relationship development

14:09 – Mirror neurons

15:35 – Nonverbal communication in human interaction (pace of blinking, pheromones)

19:30 – Anyma show at the Pyramids of Giza – “Quantum Genesys”

20:15 – Taxes in the ancient world

20:40 – The politics of calculation

20:50 – Early civilizational history of tax codes, predictions, and calculations

21:07 – Charles Sanders Peirce (more info), Pragmatism, Hired gymnasiums full of people doing calculations for the United States Coast and Geodetic Survey (Peirce Geodetic Monument)

21:34 – Lewis Mumford on the megamachine

22:05 – The Manhattan Project

22:11 – Turing test

22:52 – Wozniak’s “Coffee Test

23:28 – “Machine learning” (AI before it was launched as AI (via LLMs) in late 2022) had been present for a while

26:00 –  Education in a Time Between Worlds, “Your Mind Is Not Like a Computer; It Is Like An Ecosystem: Minding Your Metaphors About the Mind

26:55 – GPU cluster

28:30 – Dark history of Intelligence quotient (IQ) tests

28:40 – Antonio Damacio study involving woman with calcified amygdala

29:40 – Narrow metric optimization

32:40 – Supernormal stimuli

35:45 – Reality Roundtable on Dark Triad, Dark Triad (Psychopathy, Machiavellianism, Narcissism

37:40 – The Carbon Pulse

38:45 – Railroads contributed to development of early antitrust laws

39:25 – Antitrust regulation, Stacy Mitchell TGS episode on Antitrust, Antitrust cases against Google by the European Union

44:08 – Link between AI use and dark triad traits (another similar study)

45:25 – College students using AI for companionship, therapy, and cheating

46:15 – The Harvard Gazette: What good is writing anyway? 

46:50 – Cognitive atrophy and AI use

48:33 – GPS use and cognitive atrophy

49:50 – Literacy and democracy

50:50 – Albania has an AI-minister

53:30 – Human microbiome

57:30 – Confirmation bias, Narcissus

57:55 – Frankly #112: The Quadruple Bifurcation

58:45 – Job loss and AI

59:00 – AI developers’ interest in universal basic income

59:25 – Some AI developers want to “end the burden of human labor” (“this is a religious ideology in and of itself”)

59:58 – Break down of collective sanity correlated with civilizational collapse

1:01:10 – Wealthy were putting lead and mercury in wine during Roman empire collapse (anecdotal)

1:01:50 – Youth mental health crisis

1:03:25 – AI and attachment, Attachment Theory

1:03:50 – Google search results are different between users

1:07:30 – How to adjust ChatGPT so it’s less user-biased

1:08:20 – The Social Dilemma

1:11:54 – David J. Temple

1:13:40 – Common Sense Media study: 33% of U.S. adolescents use AO companions for social interaction and relationships 

1:14:45 – Replika Bot AI suicide

1:15:20 – People who believe AI is alive, Raising money for compute space to store AI personas

1:18:35 – Harry Harlow, Harlow’s monkeys, Original study

1:20:44 – Replika and Character AI, General Purpose models

1:22:00 – Transference

1:22:40 – Some AI users treat AI as god-like

1:26:25 – Zak’s research on absence of attachment

1:26:55 – Jonathan Haidt’s social media research

1:28:17 – Bearfat, honey, and salt metaphor from Eliezer Yudkowsky

1:29:10 – Facebook research showing they manipulated user’s moods

1:42:05 – Read more about “Distributed Educational Hub Networks” here

1:43:30 – Moloch, Superorganism: paper, video

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